I don’t know if you have ever heard of the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI), but I am slightly obsessed with it. Part of this probably comes from the fact that it is part of the curriculum for the course that I teach. Another part is that I find a new way to understand life and the way that I relate to people because of the MBTI. And there is no doubt that the MBTI saves my marriage on a daily basis (maybe I should say that the understanding that the MBTI gives me saves my marriage). I promise that I’m not being paid to talk about the MBTI, but I highly recommend you take it if you have not! But one thing that the MBTI has taught me is that people are different from me. Pretty simple. But important. I have also learned that it’s important that I process things externally. This comes naturally to me. But sometimes, my internally processing wife finds it too much to externally process all of life with me.
For this reason, writing in my journal is one of the most helpful things for me. I recently ran out of pages in my journal though and it felt like I was going to die! I became an instant creative and took blank sheets used for the printer and folded them over to make my own miniature journal! Of course, this was only a temporary fix and I had to buy a new one. My new journal was a bit of a different kind for me. Normally, they are the fake leather journals or Moleskine journals. I love the latter; I just don’t love the price (my wife is a firm proponent of the idea that you get what you pay for…I’m learning). But this time, I found myself a fairly inexpensive journal at Target. The cover has a phrase on it that I find fairly funny. It reads, “Whatever happened to the #1 pencil?” Read More